PORN IS POPULAR

1. Porn is sexual material designed to stimulate man’s natural sexual desire.
   1. It can be any material arousing sexual interest apart from your spouse.
   2. Though there is a huge industry intentionally using it to make money.
   3. Many Christian men pervert “innocent” material for their own lusts.
   4. It does not have to be x-rated, total nudity, or perverse to be porn.
2. Because men are highly sensitive to visual stimulation, it is the usual mode.
   1. Men are instinctively and instantaneously aroused highly by sight.
   2. Flashing the picture of a beautiful woman scantily clad causes arousal.
   3. Women cannot understand: they are aroused differently and slowly.
   4. Foolish women mock and ridicule pornography to their own peril.
3. Pornography may not be pictorial; filthy speech and novels can also qualify.
   1. Filthy talking whores for a credit card number have been popular.
   2. Novels with filthy stories to excite the imagination are just as evil.
4. Powerful images are now more available than ever in the world’s history.
   1. Photography, printing, and publishing create the magazine industry.
      1. A legion of glossy, inexpensive magazines are down the street.
      2. Novels, calendars, books, manuals, and printed porn abound.
   2. Television, cable, and video create the movie and video industry.
      1. Television programming and advertising constantly use sex.
      2. Movie rentals like Amazon or Netflix include pornography.
      3. The local cable company will install unlimited channels of filth.
   3. Theaters offer the latest in audio/video perfection for pornography.
      1. What woman can resist an invitation to a movie . . . to her ruin?
      2. This powerful medium hypes the images and religion of hell.
   4. Internet websites, chat rooms, and email create the cybersex industry.
      1. Porn has been by far the largest industry using the Internet.
      2. Still photos, videos, stories, diaries, surveys, letters, chatting, talking, live strippers, or virtual sex of any size, color, nationality, age, preference, or perversion are a “click” away.
      3. Playboy magazine will no longer feature nudes (2015) due to all the free pictorial spreads and video pornography on the Internet.
      4. Selfies and filming by friends by wicked women have created an unlimited source of free videos of nudity, sex, and much more.
   5. Good men can now view it secretly at home or the office without risk.
   6. Any filthy, vile lust can be fed with total anonymity for the first time.
   7. No generation has ever had 5% of the availability we presently face.
5. It is a common temptation for men, and our sons will experiment with it.
   1. How many fathers address this issue carefully with their children?
   2. How many pastors warn their churches of its horrible consequences?
   3. It should be addressed, for it is a popular device of Satan to destroy.
   4. Women and sex have been the greatest source of destruction for men.

PORN IS SIN

1. God has revealed His absolute will in the Holy Scriptures (II Tim 3:16-17).
   1. We know sin by learning God’s holy commandments (Romans 7:7).
   2. We esteem His rules and hate anything contrary (Psalm 119:128).
2. God designed and created the woman, invented sex, ordained marriage, and made all for the man: He must know optimal use for optimal pleasure.
   1. God’s will is sexual holiness (I Thess 4:1-8; I Corinthians 6:15-20).
   2. God’s will is marital pleasure (Pr 5:19; Ec 9:9; I Co 7:1-5; Heb 13:4).
   3. God created a woman’s body to be very attractive to men (Gen 6:2; 12:11; 24:16; 29:17; II Sam 11:2; 13:1; Song 4:1-7; 7:1-9; 8:8-10).
3. God’s Word is not silent when it comes to condemning this sexual sin.
   1. Desiring a wife is good (Deut 5:21; 21:10-13; Prov 18:22; I Cor 7:2).
   2. Desiring another’s wife is sin (Exodus 20:17; Jer 5:7-9; Matt 5:28).
   3. Desiring a single woman for sex is sin (Job 31:1; Proverbs 24:9).
   4. Husbands are commanded to be totally and always happy visually and emotionally with their wives (Pr 5:15-23). This is the most direct and condemning verse in the Bible about pornography and other women.
   5. Single men are commanded to mortify the deeds of the flesh or get married (Pr 6:6-23; Col 3:5-7; I Thes 4:3-7; I Jn 2:15-17; I Cor 7:2,9).
   6. God knows about pornographic images rather clearly (Ezek 23:13-16).
4. The rule is simple – we cannot look at other women to get sexual pleasure.
   1. Our wives’ breasts and love must satisfy. It is God’s law (Pr 5:15-23).
   2. Any other woman is a strange woman – not rightly ours, an outsider – and illegal for any sexual pleasure (Pr 2:16; 5:3,20; 6:24; 7:5; 23:27).
   3. We cannot see and desire other women (Ps 101:3; Pr 6:25; Mat 5:28).
   4. We cannot even think foolishly of fornication (Job 31:1; Prov 24:9).
   5. Pleasure in sin of others – entertainment or friends – is sin (Rom 1:32).
   6. Contentment is a commandment, not a circumstance (Hebrews 13:4-6).

PORN IS PERVERSE

1. God made the woman and invented sex, but we have perverted it (Ecc 7:29).
2. Rather than build a real, personal, fulfilling, and emotional relationship with a loyal woman for optimal sexual pleasure and peace, porn destroys this glorious potential by replacing it with dead images of drugged, filthy sluts.
3. Dead images of drugged, defiled, filthy, and depraved sluts are chosen over our kind, faithful, loving, and gentle wives, who gladly bear our children, serve our needs, forgive our faults, and cheerfully sacrifice their lives for us.
4. Heterosexual men fascinated with lesbians; virgin-expecting men fascinated with public sewers; fastidious men fascinated with polluted sluts; possessive men fascinated with conniving whores; pornography is very perverse.
5. See honorable men give their wealth to the basest of human scum (Pr 5:10).
6. See honest and careful men crave trick photography of silicon-bloated sluts.
7. Advanced porn is sodomy, bestiality, sadism, masochism, necrophilia, pedophilia, incest, feces, golden showers, gerbils, piercings, stuffing, etc.

PORN LIES

1. It lies boldly: this isn’t going to hurt you or anyone else, go ahead, enjoy it.
2. It lies boldly: you can’t be happy unless you satisfy all your sexual desires.
3. It lies boldly: it is better than committing fornication, so help yourself out.
4. It lies boldly: since God made the woman, you should enjoy His creation.
5. It lies boldly: as long as you are having sex with your wife, it’s no problem.
6. It lies boldly: if you give up this innocent diversion, holiness will bore you.
7. It lies boldly: something that looks this good and feels this good can’t be sin.
8. It lies boldly: since you don’t know the women, there can be nothing wrong.
9. It lies boldly: since your wife gave her permission, then there is no sin in it.
10. It lies boldly: since it revved up sex with your wife last night, it has profit.

PORN DEBASES YOUR WIFE

1. You lose appreciation, desire, sensitivity, and pleasure from your own wife.
2. Porn uses rare women, cosmetic surgery, perfect prepping, sensual training, expensive props, and trick photography to create fantasy images.
3. Your wife is imperfect, bears children, ages, and has no artificial assistance.
4. She cannot compete, no matter how hard she tries, with this fantasy image for at least four reasons: (1) inferior looks and props, (2) familiarity breeds contempt, (3) she doesn’t have a slut’s soul, and (4) sin always lies again.
5. Your wife has a soul, fears God, serves you daily, bears your children, forgives your faults, and faithfully stays loyal; but you prefer odious sluts.
6. The precious traits of character and companionship you loved in the beginning are replaced with fixation on body parts and bare performance.
7. Making love with your wife is reduced to impersonal sex with body parts.
8. Instead of an honored and cherished wife, she is an orgiastic receptacle only.

PORN DESENSITIZES YOU

1. You will require more and more explicit pornography for the same pleasure.
   1. Pictures of women in swimming suits only “satisfy” for a little while.
   2. Porn reduces sexual sensitivity: do not be deceived by sin’s great lie.
   3. It will not make you more sensitive sexually than it made Eve a god.
   4. Like a drug, you will need more explicit images to get the same rush.
   5. Any short-term increased desire must be sought again with less effect.
   6. Your wife and mild pornography will only work together for a while.
2. The trend over the last fifty years shows the need for more explicitness.
   1. The degree of nakedness in legal pornography has increased greatly.
   2. The rapid growth of perversion in the last thirty years also proves it.
3. A continual barrage of perfect images dulls your mind to your ordinary wife.
   1. A man plowing with a mule all day would crave even his ugly wife.
   2. You will be as many men today – the grasshopper dies (Ec 12:5); why do you think Viagra is such a success in this “free” generation?

PORN IS FLAMMABLE

1. You will excite your sexual desires to a level of great danger and risk.
   1. It was David’s view of a beautiful woman bathing that brought sin.
   2. This high level of excitement will be satisfied less and less by a wife.
   3. You will create a constant need for sexual satisfaction while awake.
   4. Any opportunity for other sexual sins will be very difficult to resist.
   5. Your natural and spiritual inhibitions to sin will be crushed to death.
   6. What should be only one of many physical appetites becomes the god.
   7. Contentment with holding your wife tenderly and talking to her will be replaced with frustration to find happiness in mere orgasms.
2. In this society, there are certain lusts we need to suppress in order to survive.
   1. Making no provision for the flesh (Rom 13:14) condemns all porn.
   2. Prudent men foresee evil and hide themselves by avoiding it (Pr 22:3).

PORN IS ADDICTIVE

1. Like drugs, it takes greater and greater mastery until you cannot put it down.
2. Why do we have a new term in America – sexual addiction? We created it.
3. Experience teaches this lesson clearly and repeatedly. Believe the warning.
4. Ted Bundy was a serial rapist and killer, who confessed to this addiction.
5. It binds with cords and destroys souls as God describes (Prov 5:22; 6:32).
6. One cigarette does not addict; one a day may not; but try a few every day.
7. But just one look at pornography leaves an image you cannot destroy easily.
8. True freedom is doing what you should do and stopping what you should not do, rather than doing whatever you want without ability to do what is right.

PORN HATES MARRIAGE

1. You will reduce the satisfaction of your marital relationship with your wife.
   1. The main tenet of pornography is whoredom with many partners.
   2. The routine of the same woman compared to infinite variety is boring.
   3. Godly spouses not on drugs and without a slut’s heart do not go crazy with animal passion as porn illustrates in its distortion of women.
   4. You both will be frustrated, disillusioned, unhappy, and discontented.
2. You will create a “mistress” for yourself rather than loving your wife.
3. You will create an “escape” for yourself rather than work on problems.
4. Pornography cannot enhance a marriage – it can only destroy a marriage.
5. Pornography resents monogamy and praises polygamy, sodomy, orgies, etc.

PORN HATES WOMEN

1. You will reduce respect for the women you know due to physical fixation.
   1. Pornography creates an obsession with only the bodies of women.
   2. God exalts women for character traits over physical beauty (Pr 31:30).
   3. Men have always admired a woman’s gentle, sweet, loyal, effeminate, and kind spirit, but you will be measuring her in terms of sweaty sex.
   4. Instead of recognizing character and spiritual traits, you will be unable to resist categorizing women by various body parts and base sexuality.
   5. Rather than admire a virtuous woman for love of God, spiritual fruit, and great service to husband and children, you will debase her for a small bust, modest clothing, and lack of a forward, flirtatious spirit.
2. The noble virtue of protecting and honoring women is lost for sexploitation.
   1. Instead of honorable giving to women, they are used for sex and left.
   2. Chivalry is exchanged for getting all you can from a few body parts.
   3. Rather than what you can do for a woman, you see what you can get.
   4. Far from protecting the virtue of all women, you now crave to destroy.
3. It reduces the gracious, gentle, kind woman to a mere grunting, sweating slut.
4. It reduces the loyal, serving, faithful woman to a conniving, cheating whore.

PORN CORRUPTS MANNERS

1. The philosophy taught by all pornographic sources is anti-God, anti-Bible, anti-church, anti-marriage, anti-family, anti-authority, anti-everything true.
2. Be not deceived: you cannot see the pictures and reject the philosophy, for the author of both is a lion waiting for the opening you give with a peak.
3. The noble, open, honest man becomes a lying, hiding, sneaking pervert.
4. The bold and righteous man becomes a fearful and timid man (Prov 28:1).
5. If a man cannot rule porn, then he will lose control elsewhere (Pr 25:28).

PORN DISTORTS REALITY

1. You will assume all women are like the pornographic models in looks.
   1. Young men will be disappointed quickly, even on their honeymoons.
   2. No woman looks like the typical pornographic fantasy image.
   3. Your wife cannot exercise enough or buy enough bra padding.
   4. Male sexual dysfunction has pornography to thank for much trouble.
2. You will assume all women are like the pornographic models in desires.
   1. They don’t crave animalistic sex twenty-five hours a day from you.
   2. They won’t do half the positions, contortions, or acts you have seen.
   3. They don’t want other men, multiple men, a woman, and so forth.
   4. They only endure anything but tender, missionary-style lovemaking.
3. You miss the beauty, comfort, and reward of a virtuous and gracious wife.
4. If you try to treat your wife as the porn models, you will only offend her.

PORN CREATES FEMS

1. It destroys manly confidence by promoting a make-believe fantasy world.
   1. You will learn you are a looker and not a doer. Real men are doers.
   2. You will learn you could not attract such women even if you tried.
   3. You will learn you could not satisfy such illusionary women either.
   4. Little boys sneak pictures of naked women; real men love one woman.
2. Real lovers know how to take a woman and create eternal adoration.
   1. The best sex is reserved for men who seduce their wives without sex.
   2. Tenderness, kindness, patience, compliments, and affection are manly.
   3. Little perverts who can’t think any higher than their orgasms are fems.
3. Real men rule their passions for godliness; weak men cannot control them.
4. How manly is a guy with a chain and collar around his neck? A porn slave!
5. Heavy use of pornography leads men down the steps into the hell of sodomy.

PORN DEPERSONALIZES SEX

1. You will ignore your wife to have sex with her body without any affection.
   1. Why do you think the popularity of positions other than face-to-face?
   2. Why do you think the popularity of other forms of sexual release?
   3. If you have sex without kissing, you are just a John with a prostitute.
   4. God knows the perfect position for lovemaking (Solomon 2:6; 8:3).
   5. Happiness and fulfillment is giving to your wife – not wanting more.
2. It will condition you to think only in terms of body parts and dimensions.
   1. A woman’s body should never be separated from her soul and heart.
   2. The justification that you do not know the women is this very error.
   3. If you are always measuring and comparing little parts here and there, you will miss the fulfillment of making love with a whole woman.
3. Sex becomes its own end, which will not bring happiness to either of you.
   1. Orgiastic sex without love is merely like animals mating without love.
   2. Sex is part of intimate lovemaking rather than a mechanical function.
   3. If performance is more important than the person, your soul has died.
   4. You will become greatly frustrated and unhappy without true love.

PORN DESTROYS YOUR WIFE

1. When your wife finds your porn, it will slice her soul in half with a knife.
   1. If she tells you she does not mind, she is lying or hiding her own sins.
   2. If she tells you she does not mind, she is trying to be a “good” wife.
   3. If she tells you she does not mind, she will mind more in the future.
   4. You planted the seed of bitterness and hatred that grows into a tree.
2. You will take away all the motivation God put in her heart to serve you.
3. You will destroy her sexual capacity to please you with fearful insecurity.
   1. Women can have far more sexual pleasure and response than men.
   2. In the Creator’s plan, a man’s greatest pleasure is his wife’s response.
   3. But there are two things that will destroy her ability – fear and pain.
   4. Addiction and preference to pornography creates fearful insecurity.
   5. She will know you’re having sex with her with your heart elsewhere.
   6. She will know only a few body parts interest you rather than herself.
   7. Isn’t this wise? A man craving sex destroys his wife’s erotic ability.
4. You create a wife exceeding vulnerable to a man’s attention and affection.
5. You create a wife with a secret heart longing to be loved by anyone else.

PORN DESTROYS YOUR SOUL

1. Adultery with a woman leaves you a piece of bread (Pr 6:26), what of this?
2. Adultery with a woman destroys your soul (Pr 6:32; Mt 5:28), what of this?
3. Adultery with a woman takes you to hell (Pr 5:5; 7:27; 9:18), what of this?
4. Adultery with a woman destroys the heart (Ps 51:10-12), what of this?
5. Adultery with a woman violates the Spirit (I Cor 6:15-20), what of this?
6. The destination of those whose eyes are full of adultery is hell (II Pet 2:14).
7. It gives Satan a large open door to steal your soul and enflame your lusts, and this opening is not recovered easily but by great grace (II Tim 2:25-26).
8. The cords of sexual sins will bind you up and leave you trapped (Prov 5:22).

PORN NEEDS A START

1. If you young men never get started, you will never have to suffer or fear it.
   1. What will you miss? Pain, frustration, disappointment, guilt, shame!
   2. Even one look will cost you, for the images will not leave your mind.
   3. Do you want to have a great marriage and make love daily? Hate porn!
   4. If pleasures of sin for seconds cost long-term happiness, it is here.
2. It starts out “innocently” with ads of bras, panties, bathing suits; National Geographic, women’s catalogs, Newsweek pictures and articles; Sports Illustrated, People magazine, grocery tabloids, album covers, calendars, etc.
3. Then it often moves on to sex textbooks, marriage manuals, novels, etc.
4. It finds fertile ground in television programming, movies, and video rentals.
5. And then it moves to strictly pornographic magazines, movies, and websites.

PORN NEEDS ASSISTANCE

1. Your deceitful heart will begin defending you to justify your wickedness.
2. It does not matter if your wife allows it or participates. God condemns it.
   1. Women are weak and silly, easily deceived, and trying to please you.
   2. You cannot measure righteousness by the weaker vessel but by God.
3. Any temporary “bang” you get with your wife from it is foolish lie from hell.
   1. A soft-porn movie (sin with words) with a wife may bring passion.
   2. But the passion is devilish, physical only, and caused by other women.
   3. It will not last but a few hours and will require porn to bring it back.
   4. If you think it is enhancing your marriage, you are a deceived idiot.
4. Television is a great evil. It is constantly frustrating by teasing continually.
   1. Every program on television, comedies or dramas, uses sex to entice.
   2. Many advertisements use sex to sell, because they prey on our lusts.
   3. The constant carnal messages and sensual images will steal your soul.
   4. Since the law limits teasing of television, you will need to go to porn.
5. The libertarian lie about victimless crimes forgets God, you, and your wife.
   1. What will the libertarian say when standing before the living God?
   2. Both model and viewer may have consented, but the sinful heart carefully disguises and hides the incredible damage being done.
6. When your marriage is hurting, go to the Lord instead of a worse evil.
   1. Trouble with your wife is not an excuse to find other women to enjoy.
   2. Trouble with a wife means you have not done your duty as husband.
   3. Confession, unselfish love, the Lord, and wise counsel can save you.
7. Every carnal influence you allow will pull at your porn lust, for there is nothing more exciting to the natural man than nakedness of another woman.
8. God ordained monthly periods and pregnancy, so don’t use these as excuses.

PORN HAS A CURE

1. Jesus Christ died to save us from the sin of pornography, as all other sins.
2. If we repent, repudiate our sin, and acknowledge its folly, we can be saved.
   1. Job 33:27-28 is the single best passage identifying this procedure.
   2. I John 1:9 and Proverbs 28:13 also teach us the victory of confession.
   3. II Corinthians 7:10-11 demands full-blown, all-out repentance.
3. We then need to replace that filthy trash with the Word of God (Ps 119:9).
4. Then we need to learn and live true godliness to suffocate and kill our lusts.
   1. Which is godly: having what you want or wanting what you have?
   2. Confess your faults to another, and pray for one another (James 5:16).
   3. Love your wife and keep sex part of loving rather than an end itself.
   4. Learn to love your wife for all of her being rather than just body parts.
5. Seek with God’s help to develop a holy hatred for all worldly influences.

PORN PREVENTION

1. Never buy a porn magazine: this is pretty obvious, isn’t it, for anyone?
2. Eliminate all movies: this includes the theater, television, and video rentals.
3. Turn off the television: its carnal message and sensual images will tease you.
4. Restrict the Internet: cancel it, use a sex block, put the computer in the open.
5. Confess and forsake all fantasies: even the thought of foolishness is sin.
6. Eliminate jokes about sex: only fools make a mock at sin, and sex is noble.
7. Condemn romantic novels for women: they are an equivalent sin for wives.
8. Confess your problem to your wife and solicit her understanding and help.
   1. Reject her understanding or forgiveness as approval. God hates it!
   2. A good wife will rebuke you for sin, and you should encourage it.
9. Give her permission and direction to rat you out to a brother/pastor.
10. Run away from temptation; don’t walk or talk or consider. Flee from it!
11. Be ready to pluck out an eye or cut off a hand in sexual lusts (Matt 5:27-32).
12. God sees sexual sins, and He will get you. Read Proverbs 5:19-23 carefully.