Destructive Decision Making
Men differ greatly in the prosperity or success they achieve. A major factor affecting them is how they make decisions. Hasty and ignorant decision making must end, for it truly hurts progress, though fools can hardly learn to do otherwise.
- Our glorious God and loving Father gave us rules for our success (Josh 1:8; Ps 1:1-3).
- He knows our sin natures and temptations perfectly; His word is to overcome them.
- A pastor that trusts and studies the Bible can be a perfect teacher (II Tim 3:16-17).
- Solomon wrote Proverbs to give children and nation success (Pr 4:3-12; 8:17-21).
- For the sake of this study, we will use only Proverbs verses, ignoring many more.
- The wisdom here presented has been taught over and over in daily commentaries.
- Solomon taught to slow down and only make decisions with good prudent research.
- The text clearly teaches quick decisions are sin … and lack of research is also sin.
- If you think … it is not good … is not sin, just compare the two coordinated clauses.
- If you think … it is not good … is not sin, compare the folly verses before and after.
- If you think … it is not good … is not sin, please study the figures litotes and meiosis.
- If you think it not sin, what of without understanding (Jer 5:21; Rom 1:31; Pr 24:9).
- For more about the title text above, please see our detailed commentary of it … here.
- Let the context help you appreciate the opening text by the folly verses before and after.
- The verse begins with also, saying ignorant haste as another trait of a fool (Pr 19:1).
- The next verse also identifies this fool; his folly perverts his way against the LORD.
- God will not let fools succeed, other than exceptions, and so they fret against God.
- The first three verses are related, and the three errors are foolish perversion and sin.
- These three verses are God’s holy and inspired rules via Solomon the son of David.
- Differences in success among men are not by birth, intellect, opportunities, race, etc.
- The Bible does say God rules time and chance of human success (Eccl 9:11; 7:14).
- However, this is a minor factor, or God’s rules for success would have no meaning.
- Ecclesiastes 9:11 in no way excuses folly or sloth or mocks wisdom and effort; it is a reminder God may work against ordinary rules of success to humble vain man.
- Character and conduct are most important for natural and supernatural favor in life, for this is the overall theme of Proverbs (and the Bible) for the benefit of believers.
- Fools make decisions without knowledge (Prov 4:26; 13:16; 14:8,15; 15:28; 22:3).
- Fools make decisions hastily (Proverbs 14:29; 18:13; 21:5; 25:8; 29:20; 7:21-22).
- The main difference among men is whether they make emotional – impulsive choices.
- Emotional = decisions by feelings, desires, thoughts … not knowledge, prudence.
- Impulsive = decisions by haste, circumstances, spontaneity … not slow with study.
- Poor decisions – emotional and impulsive – will keep a man from making progress.
- Poor decisions accumulating over time will show up as a man behind the age curve.
- Some men by parental example, habits, and pride cannot make profitable decisions.
- They are fools, and most cannot be helped (Prov 17:10,12; 26:11; 27:22; 29:9,19).
- If successful men give powerful advice, their pride rejects it (Prov 26:16; 28:26).
- Fools hate instruction and correction and will be scorners (Prov 12:1; 14:16; 26:3).
- Their only hope is God’s intervention, but He has not promised it (II Tim 2:24-26).
- How can you stop being hasty and ignorant? The answer is truly quite easy and simple.
- Stop making decisions … Stop! … do not change anything in your life on your own.
- Ask successful men – several of them – about any decisions before you make them.
- It does not matter if their advice is different; you should carefully weigh all advice.
- Unsuccessful men – with little for their age – do not know how to make decisions.
- A multitude of counselors can save fools from themselves (Pr 11:14; 15:22; 24:6).
- This simple rule is incredibly easy and also valuable (Proverbs 1:5; 12:15; 19:20).
- Read the daily Proverb commentary and put its wisdom in regular practice … here.
- Slow down! There is no reason to hurry choices, decisions, and actions. Slow down!
- As shown above from Proverbs, haste is a sin and is destructively wrong for action.
- Like in evaluating a new job. The first two weeks, or more, do not count as valid.
- The virtuous woman considered a field before buying it (Prov 31:16). A wise rule.
- No one should ever think a person is marriage material without extensive research; prospects need to be tested, interviewed, examined, and objectively measured.
- Read the daily Proverb commentary and put its wisdom in regular practice … here.
- What kind of choices or decisions are being addressed by this warning from the LORD?
- Minor choices like what to have for lunch are irrelevant, for they do not affect life.
- Major choices like how to be an employee or husband are already decided by God.
- Decisions like these need caution … selling a house, quitting a job, starting boy-girl relationship, when to have children, how many to have, taking a job, buying a house, making big purchases, career choice, investments, starting a business, which college, which college degree, etc. Decisions with financial or life-altering effect.
- The farther behind you are … clearly bad decisions … even small choices need help.
- What should wise men do? Identify fools, warn them, reprove them, then avoid them.