14:1-4 for introduction to Christian liberty for local church members.
Sermon Outline
Introduction:
Romans 14 deals exclusively with Christian liberty, though Paul included other doctrines to serve his topic.
Christian liberty is the freedom for each Christian to do as he will with things God has not addressed.
Theologians and commentators in the past called these indifferent things and dealt with men’s scruples.
You can follow your conscience anywhere you wish, as long as you do not violate God’s commandments or set up any standards of your own for others, including things required or prohibited.
Peace lovers will love this subject, for it is the rules that help different folks live together in harmony.
The main issues facing Paul had to with the churches he served having both Jewish and Gentile converts.
Eating meat or drinking wine offered to idols offended the Jews much in their scruples to avoid idolatry.
Keeping ceremonial days of Moses’ law was very important to the Jews due to scripture and tradition.
Eating unclean meat was very offensive to the Jews, for their scriptures had taught against it (Dan 1:8).
With Jewish legalists accusing and attacking as they could, Jews or their sympathizers were affected.
The early Christians ate together often, which brought the meat differences up quickly and repeatedly.
What might be safely granted, if asked and given as a matter of indifference, became a fatal apostasy when demanded as a matter of necessity or condition of salvation.
An acid test that may clarify is to consider whether a person should be excluded and shunned for liberties.
It is easy for weak Christians obsessed with some minor matter to shout loud and long about their view.
But should a perfect family in perfect standing with the church be excluded for their liberty on a matter?
If the family or person should not be excluded, it is Christian liberty, for God’s rules require exclusion.
Another angle: should a church that glorifies God and exalts the Lord Jesus in truth be left over liberty?
What causes a person to violate their church membership and reject the local church over a liberty?
What causes a person to go off on tangents God does not care about and raise divisive issues in a church?
Partial or poor understanding of the Bible will lead to false interpretations and applications of the truth.
A self-righteous attitude that they are special, thus their ideas and rules make them better than others.
A misunderstanding of true Christianity, so that peace and joy are not very important to them (14:17).
A substitute for their lack of true spiritual religion and the importance of a relationship with Christ.
Too much time in para-church organizations built primarily on external matters of liberty outside Christ.
Too much Internet time, where they become weekend experts on issues they want to impose on others.
The love to be different and have what they consider an “edge” over other Christians that love Christ.
The very false idea that the more conservative on any issue is the more godly position e.g. Pharisees.
Teaching and agendas from other churches and pastors where Christianity is or includes witch hunting.
Personal experiences with excess or abuse of issues that work up their emotions e.g. a drunkard father.
Family habits or traditions that are hard for them to think of as manmade due to familiarity and esteem.
A superstitious approach to religion that puts sacred value on practical matters that the Bible does not.
Ignorance about the danger, nature, safeguards, temptations, or other factors of some liberty practices.
The wiles of the devil, who seeks to divide churches and distract saints like no other (I Pet 5:8; Ep 6:11).
The Council of Jerusalem had obvious limitations, or eating of meat offered to idols could not be a liberty.
1 Him that is weak in the faith receive ye, but not to doubtful disputations.
Him that is weak in the faith.
The faith is the religion of Jesus Christ, assuming knowledge and commitment to certain things.
It does not say a man weak in faith, but rather the faith, meaning the doctrine of Jesus Christ.
Paul elsewhere connected it closely to knowing the truth which is after godliness (Titus 1:1).
The wholesome words of Jesus and doctrine according to godliness is our standard (I Tim 6:3).
James appealed to the faith the faith of Jesus Christ did not include respect of persons (Jas 2:1).
New Testament Christianity had no use for Old Testament Mosaic legalism or Greek paganism.
Old Testament rituals of Moses had passed away with John and Jesus (Luke 16:16; Heb 9:10).
Christianity has beliefs and practices required or condemned and anything else is irrelevant.
Him that is weak in Christ’s religion are men with doubts about things God does not care about.
If God commands anything, a true follower of Jesus Christ will do that thing as commanded.
If God condemns anything, a true follower of Jesus Christ will not do anything close to it.
If God has neither commanded or condemned a thing, a true disciple does not make it an issue.
When a man starts worrying about things God has ignored, he shows his Christian weakness.
When a man starts commanding or condemning things God has ignored, he is a weak Christian.
When a man gets superstitious about something in the Bible and makes it a rule, he is weak.
When a man gets fearful about a thing in the world to be used and makes a rule, he is weak.
Paul called some Christians weak (14:1-2; I Cor 8:7,9-12), meaning others are strong (15:1).
If you do not like being called weak in the faith, then grow up and end your foolish thoughts.
If the faith of Jesus Christ or His religion commands or condemns something, we enforce it strictly.
Whatever the New Testament teaches, we enforce only that holy standard on church members.
Any conduct outside this doctrine and practice, we allow as liberty for each man’s conscience.
A simple way to crush manmade ideas is to ask if you are willing to publicly rebuke, exclude, and socially shun a godly church family perfect in all other respects than your little pet peeve.
Churches can and should receive weak converts with ignorant, superstitious, or tender consciences.
Strong members will be tempted to despise a weak conscience or understanding of a convert.
Weak members will be tempted to fear or resent a strong conscience and liberty of a convert.
The issue here is membership, communion, and fellowship in a local church body or congregation.
It is in the church where we learn and continue to convert to be perfect men in Christ (Ep 4:11-16).
But not to doubtful disputations.
Weak converts may not discuss, debate, dispute, publish, or question their doubts in the church.
This is applied to any public opportunity to speak to part or all of the church in any forum.
This is applied to any private opportunity to speak to one or more church members informally.
You may state what you do or do not do, but condemnation or promotion cannot be tolerated.
The kingdom of God is to exalt peace and unity above your scruples (14:17; 15:5-7; I Cor 1:10).
Can you grasp and accept this? Neither God nor men care what you think on your little pet peeves.
2 For one believeth that he may eat all things: another, who is weak, eateth herbs.
For one believeth that he may eat all things.
One man, likely a Gentile in this context, believes he can eat any kind of animal meat he wishes.
He is the strong conscience in this matter of Christian liberty, for he lives by the religion of Jesus.
Consider the conscience, habits, mind, and conversion of this Gentile to the Christian religion.
He only has to hear once that Lev 11 and Deut 14 are over, because he never followed them.
If as a proselyte he had followed Moses for a few years, he fondly remembered his Gentile diet.
When converted from idolatry, he learned there was only one God and the pantheon was a lie.
Once converted, he knew the vanity and mechanics of idolatry, and he could mock false gods.
His family and relatives ate meats often that were condemned by Moses without any scruples.
This strong believer devouring shrimp near Jupiter’s temple looks like a libertine to the Jew.
Another, who is weak, eateth herbs.
One man, likely a Jew in this context, believes he is limited by Leviticus and his hatred of idolatry.
He is the weak conscience in this matter, for the ceremonial law was gone and idols are nothing.
Consider the conscience, habits, mind, and conversion of a strict Jew to the Christian religion.
He heard Lev 11 and Deut 14 all his life and never broke them a single time. He eats kosher!
His family and relatives never ate meats that were condemned by Moses for any reason at all.
He had never tasted bacon, ham, or pepperoni, so he is content with lamb roast and beef stew.
When turned from Moses to Christ, he still believed in Jehovah and despised Rome’s pantheon.
A cultural and national hatred of idols and God’s constant war against them has him set for life.
When shopping he buys veggies, knowing the meats had likely been offered to Roman idols.
This weak believer feasting with homegrown lambs looks like an ignorant monk to the Gentile.
Nowhere in the Bible is vegetarianism taught after Noah got off the Ark (Genesis 1:27-30; 9:1-4).
If vegetarians think there is any religious value in it, then they are considered weak by Paul.
If a Christian wants to be a vegetarian, he may, as long as he neither promotes nor condemns.
Christians do not want to hear man’s ideas about vegetarianism for God fully approves meat.
3 Let not him that eateth despise him that eateth not; and let not him which eateth not judge him that eateth: for God hath received him.
Let not him that eateth despise him that eateth not.
The strong Gentile practicing true Christianity without scruples must charitably accept the Jew.
No matter how ignorant or superstitious the Jew was in the Gentile’s mind, he was to love him.
If you cannot grasp the great offence Jews and Gentiles would have had for each other, start over!
And let not him which eateth not judge him that eateth.
The weak Jew practicing a hybrid of Christianity with scruples must charitably accept the Gentile.
No matter how careless or lascivious the Gentile seemed to the Jew’s mind, he was to love him.
If you cannot grasp the great offence Jews and Gentiles would have had for each other, start over!
For God hath received him.
God did not care if converts ate meat that had been offered to idols or not. It did not matter to Him.
God had received each man and both men based on Christ’s death on the cross regardless of meat.
What is the antecedent of him? It is each man by the whole verse and God’s acceptance of both.
4 Who art thou that judgest another man’s servant? to his own master he standeth or falleth. Yea, he shall be holden up: for God is able to make him stand.
Who are thou that judgest another man’s servant.
The Lord Jesus by the apostle Paul confronts the Romans and you about judging others’ liberty.
It was and is a rule of judgment and justice that an employer should not judge another’s employee.
You do not know the employment contract or overall character or conduct of another’s employee.
You are way out of your ability, right, role, and league to be judging another man’s employee.
The lesson is clearly this: each believer stands before God not before other believers in such things.
Who do you think you are, Christian, to sit in judgment on other Christians for your little issues?
To his own master he standeth or falleth.
Each servant, or employee, receives the approval or criticism of his own master and not any other.
If he fulfills his employment contract in the things expected, he will receive his master’s approval.
If he violates his employment contract in the things expected, he will receive his master’s censure.
What others think of him do not matter at all, for they are entirely outside his employment contract.
Yea, he shall be holden up.
God is the master in this metaphorical and rhetorical argument over both the Jew and the Gentile.
It had already been stated that God had received on the merits of Christ and true conversion (14:3).
God is already reconciled (perfect tense) to the elect without meat or holiday laws (II Co 5:18).
And He shall preserve His elect (future tense) through Judgment without such laws (8:1,28-39).
Each man, the Jew and the Gentile, shall be preserved in Christ Jesus to God’s approval (Jude 1:1).
Whether a Christian follows or rejects any ideas on Christian liberty does not affect eternity.
There is no condemnation to them that are in Christ Jesus and follow the Spirit (Romans 8:1).
There is no shortage of spiritual blessing or any possible separation from God (Rom 8:28-39).
No man can pluck them out of the hand of Jesus Christ or the hand of His Father (Jn 10:28-29).
What the weak say about the strong or the strong about the weak matters not, but God’s approval!
You are not upheld before God by your monastic fanaticism for any or all liberties, but by Christ!
For God is able to make him stand.
God is the master in this metaphorical and rhetorical argument over both the Jew and the Gentile.
It had already been stated that God had received on the merits of Christ and true conversion (14:3).
Once God has received a man by Christ’s death, the man shall obtain all else he needs (Rom 8:32).
He has been predestinated to adoption and made accepted in the Beloved Christ Jesus (Eph 1:3-6).
The context is a metaphor (first half of this verse) and a prophecy of Judgment (Rom 8:1,28-39).
5 One man esteemeth one day above another: another esteemeth every day alike. Let every man be fully persuaded in his own mind.
One man esteemeth one day above another.
After meats, Paul then addressed the keeping of Jewish days required by Moses’ ceremonial law.
A converted Jew could easily cherish his personal and family tradition of keeping Jewish holidays.
Habits and honors for days, months, new moons, and years would have been precious to him.
He would know the scriptures by memory that commanded Israel to keep those days forever.
With Jewish legalists spewing their worship of Moses everywhere, he also had Internet allies.
Another esteemeth every day alike.
Gentiles converts would not care about the Jewish holidays, because they had never kept them.
To Gentile converts, Friday and Saturday were equal and also the tenth day of the seventh month!
They did not have an exodus out of Egypt to remember nor a year of release they had practiced.
Let every man be fully persuaded in his own mind.
In matters of Christian liberty where God has not ruled, every man should have a clear conscience.
Liberties, things God does not care about, become sin without a clear conscience (14:22-23).
If you are going to do or not do something, then your own mind should be fully convinced.
Look at the liberty afforded in the gospel! Every man is singular and his own mind is singular!
Each Christian is free by God and Paul to hold any view they wish with their own convictions.
Each Christian is free by God and Paul to ignore views of others no matter how many or loud.
God has declared His will on all matters of importance, and we must be fully obedient to them.
The power of the human mind in God’s worship and in authority is important to introduce here.
Though a daughter or wife might vow unto the LORD, the father or husband could annul it.
Her sincerity did not matter; the father or husband might have weak reasons; it was annulled.
Considering the laws for vows shows that each man’s conscience carries great weight in matters of a personal sort that are not directly commanded or prohibited by God (Nu 30:1-16).
The father or husband should make the decision for matters of liberty for his household.
6 He that regardeth the day, regardeth it unto the Lord; and he that regardeth not the day, to the Lord he doth not regard it. He that eateth, eateth to the Lord, for he giveth God thanks; and he that eateth not, to the Lord he eateth not, and giveth God thanks.
He that regardeth the day, regardeth it unto the Lord.
The assumption here and in the following verses is sincere Christians with the proper perspective.
This is a Jew that cares about some Jewish holiday that passed away with Moses’ ceremonial law.
The Jew, though ignorant and superstitious – truly weak, keeps the day for God Jehovah’s glory.
All that truly matters for each Christian is that liberty choices are to honor God and Jesus Christ.
The beauty of Christian liberty is that each side of an issue can do so to the Lord equal to the other.
And he that regardeth not the day, to the Lord he doth not regard it.
This is a Gentile that does not care about Jewish holidays, knowing Moses’ ceremonial law is past.
The Gentile, believing the New Testament – truly strong, ignores the day for God Jehovah’s glory.
All that truly matters for each Christian is that liberty choices are to honor God and Jesus Christ.
The beauty of Christian liberty is that each side of an issue can do so to the Lord equal to the other.
He that eateth, eateth to the Lord, for He giveth God thanks.
This is a Gentile that eats either or both unclean meats and meats offered to Rome’s pagan idols.
The Gentile, believing the New Testament – truly strong, knows he may eat anything (I Tim 4:1-4).
All that truly matters for each Christian is that liberty choices are to honor God and Jesus Christ.
The beauty of Christian liberty is that each side of an issue can do so to the Lord equal to the other.
What is more important? Meat or vegetables on the table, or the diners thanking God for the food?
Thanksgiving sanctifies prayer (Phil 4:6-7), and it also sanctifies every creature of God (I Tim 4:4).
And he that eateth not, to the Lord he eateth not, and giveth God thanks.
This is a Jew that will not eat either unclean meats or meats that had been offered to Rome’s idols.
The Jews, hung up in the Old Testament – truly weak, is superstitious about meats (Hebrews 13:9).
All that truly matters for each Christian is that liberty choices are to honor God and Jesus Christ.
The beauty of Christian liberty is that each side of an issue can do so to the Lord equal to the other.
What is more important? Meat or vegetables on the table, or the diners thanking God for the food?
7 For none of us liveth to himself, and no man dieth to himself.
For none of us liveth to himself.
The assumption here and in the following verses is sincere Christians with the proper perspective.
Your life is not your own to make it what you will based on your own desires or ideas on any issue.
Even in matters of liberty, though God gives freedom, the primary concern is the Lord’s sake.
Your life did not originate with you; it is not preserved by you; you were saved despite you!
God created you, so you are all His (Pr 16:4). Jesus bought you, so you are all His (I Cor 6:20).
The main issue that should truly matter for every Christian’s decision is to please Jesus Christ.
Rather than your own ideas that do not matter, we seek God’s glory and others’ profit (14:13).
Therefore, if the Lord has not made a thing binding, why do you want to bind others with it?
Paul’s argument is explained by what went before (14:6) and by what follows (14:8) – the Lord.
Though many Christians are earthly minded, Paul has assumed for all the godly perspective.
Following Christ and showing a work of grace means we take up our cross daily (Luke 9:23).
Therefore, we should truly only be concerned about those things the Lord has made binding.
You are a bondslave of God and the Lord Jesus Christ to be told what to do in every part of life.
Bondslave. A more emphatic term for a slave, clarifying that you are owned rather than paid.
You are bought with a price requiring you to glorify God in all, for you are God’s (I Co 6:20).
You should have no goals – even in matters of worship like diet or days – that are your own.
You cannot please God, be helpful for others, or be happy yourself until you give up your life.
The happiest and most contented Christians are those that have given up all rights to be God’s.
This is the wisest, life-saving choice a man can make to find his life (Matt 10:38-39; 16:24-25).
Do you mean to tell me that I cannot live the way I want to live? That is right – you cannot do so.
Do you mean to tell me that I do not have any rights? You do: obey your parents, for this is right!
And no man dieth to himself.
Even death, which is the end of bodily life and the spirit goes to God, should be to honor Christ.
Do not think death is so personal that you can do as you wish, for Paul said it belongs to God.
A moment after you die you will appear before God and answer for all your choices on earth.
Your time of death is not in your own hands but in the hands of Him Who gave and takes life.
This is the despising and judgment by members Paul had introduced already in the lesson (14:3-4).
Since they and you are doing it to the Lord, and since the Lord will judge all, why such arrogance?
Why? Do you hear the Holy Spirit? Why? There is no basis or reason for you judge others’ liberty.
For we shall all stand before the judgment seat of Christ.
Why did Paul pull the severe matter of the Day of Judgment into a discussion of Christian liberty?
It first matters that God will rightly judge everyone else, and your opinion will not matter at all.
It second matters God will judge you for your use of liberty, so you better use it as to the Lord.
It third matters, and most importantly, God will judge you for how your liberty affects others.
Consider some main facts that we should remember considering this judgment we must all face.
There is nothing more terrifying than this certain appointment every man will keep (Heb 9:27).
Paul wrote that Roman believers and he would be in it by the inspired plural first person we, so fatalists and antinomians presuming they will never give account due to grace will be shocked!
Elementary gospel facts include resurrection and eternal judgment (Heb 6:1-2; Acts 24:25).
Solomon considered final judgment part of his summary of man’s life on earth (Ec 12:13-14).
The plan of redemption is not remedial for man, but revelatory for God Himself (Prov 16:4).
Rather than a trial for discovery of evidence, it will display and reveal facts (Rev 22:11-15).
11 For it is written, As I live, saith the Lord, every knee shall bow to me, and every tongue shall confess to God.
For it is written.
The quotation is from Isaiah 45:23, I have sworn by myself, the word is gone out of my mouth in righteousness, and shall not return, That unto me every knee shall bow, every tongue shall swear.
When God speaks or prophesies, especially if He swears, His words will be fulfilled (Matt 24: 35).
God cannot swear by anyone or thing greater, so He swears by His independent life (Heb 6:13).
As I live, saith the Lord.
What a glorious God we serve, who must swear by Himself, for there is no greater (Heb 6:13-14)!
How does God live? On what authority does His life confirm? He is Jehovah – I AM THAT I AM!
Every knee shall bow to me, and every tongue shall confess to God.
This is the future of humanity, whether dead or alive, whether believers or reprobates, of all kinds!
The Lord Jesus Christ will hold this exalted place of Judge over all men and angels (Acts 17:31).
12 So then every one of us shall give account of himself to God.
So then every one of us.
Paul concludes by so then after introducing the final judgment and then proving it by the scriptures.
The key here is: every one of us, based on we all (14:10) and every knee and every tongue (14:11).
Every member in Rome will give account, those judging others and those judged by the others!
Since all will be judged, the judgmental should leave others alone and be persuaded themselves.
Shall give account of himself to God.
With this fact settled, Christians should allow others liberty in things indifferent for God to judge.
With this fact settled, Christians should be fully persuaded themselves their liberty is to the Lord.
With this fact settled, Christians should very carefully and charitably avoid offending weak saints.
The church is bound to judge sins against God, but Christian liberty is left to the Lord (I Cor 5:12).
13 Let us not therefore judge one another any more: but judge this rather, that no man put a stumblingblock or an occasion to fall in his brother’s way.
Let us not therefore judge one another any more.
Paul’s further conclusion by therefore indicates that he has provided reasons to leave liberty alone.
If God will judge both sides of the aisle, then men should be merciful to others and holy at home.
Paul to this point addressed both sides of the aisle, but now he more directly addresses the strong.
It is the eater of meat Paul now addresses (14:15,20-21), whom he identified as strong (14:2).
Meat-eaters reduced to vegetarian diet would not be offended or hurt, just frustrated by salads!
But judge this rather.
The play on words here is for those that delight to sit in judgment on others for minor differences.
The apostle does not contradict himself – judge no more, but judge – for there are two senses.
If you think yourself wise to parse insignificant distinctions of liberty, see if you can parse this!
Rather than judge others for what they do, judge how others’ consciences must affect what you do!
That no man put a stumblingblock or an occasion to fall in his brother’s way.
The strong, likely Gentiles eating any and all meat, must consider the Jews’ conscience about meat.
In addition to the Jews’ pure conscience (14:6) and their eventual judgment (14:10), charity arises.
Stumblingblock. Something to stumble at or over; a cause of stumbling. An obstacle to belief or understanding; something repugnant to one’s prejudices. See also Leviticus 19:14 and
A Jew, with a conscience condemning meat offered to idols or unclean meats, must be protected.
If you boldly eat meat of both kinds, then you encourage or extort him against his conscience.
If he violates his conscience by eating, it is a sin (14:22-23), thus you separate him from God.
Thus your presumption to press your own liberty causes another to sin and becomes your sin!
This stumblingblock or an occasion to fall here is shortly described as destroying your brother!
14 I know, and am persuaded by the Lord Jesus, that there is nothing unclean of itself: but to him that esteemeth any thing to be unclean, to him it is unclean.
I know, and am persuaded by the Lord Jesus.
Paul was the strongest of the strong when it came to liberty, yet he was also the most charitable.
Paul’s seminary training in Arabia and inspiration of the Spirit had convinced him about meats, for Paul was taught personally by Jesus Christ rather than by Jewish apostles or men (Gal 1:11-12).
Did Paul know when writing Romans about Peter’s encounter in Acts 10:9-18? Yes (Ac 15:7-11)!
Did Paul know that a good minister from Jesus Christ allowed all meats? Yes (I Timothy 4:3-6)!
The things here are choices of conduct to restrain your liberty to protect another’s liberty for peace.
With the importance of peace clear to Bible readers, how hard will you follow after (I Sa 31:2)?
You may dislike “agree to disagree,” but in matters of Christian liberty it is absolutely correct.
And things wherewith one may edify another.
The second goal is edification – Paul protected and profited the weak (14:13,15; 15:2; I Cor 10:33).
The context is to avoid offending others by our liberty so they walk with God in their liberty!
Ministers have the obligation to teach the truth, as Paul did in many places against ignorance about liberty; church members should avoid doubtful disputations unless asked by a weak one.
The purpose of local churches is to build each other up by every part giving edification (Eph 4:16).
We must warn the unruly, but until they are unruly we should be dedicated to building them up.
Paul warned Timothy to avoid Jewish fables and genealogies to choose edifying (I Tim 1:4).
The things here are choices of conduct to restrain your liberty to help another grow as a Christian.
A reason we are in a body is not for the pastor or ourselves, but to help others (Heb 10:23-25).
Every conversation and interaction with church members should have an agenda – edification.
20 For meat destroy not the work of God. All things indeed are pure; but it is evil for that man who eateth with offence.
For meat destroy not the work of God.
This clause may be seen as the opposite side to the exhortation of the previous verse to edification.
The concept of destruction of fellow church members was already introduced by Paul (14:15).
It was possible that a strong Gentile doing good with meat could destroy a weak Jewish family!
Christians seeking to do God’s will tremble about destruction, defiling, damnation in context.
What is the work of God? The salvation and conversion of a Jewish man and his family to truth.
How can he be destroyed? By causing him to sin against conscience and lose fellowship with God.
If you push liberty too far, you can ruin him by taking away peace of conscience and with God.
If you push your liberty, you can cause his sin bringing damnation of God’s judgment (14:23).
Meat, nor any other matter of liberty, makes any difference to God, so who cares (14:6; I Cor 8:8)!
All things indeed are pure.
Meat is clean and good and pure to a man with a knowledgeable conscience (Rom 14:14,16,20).
The all things here is very limited – to those things of liberty to which God is entirely indifferent.
In particular, the all things here are meat and drink offered to idols or unclean by Moses’ law.
Paul, as much as anyone, and taught well by Jesus, knew that all meats were pure (14:14; Tit 1:15).
If you know indeed that some activity is pure by God’s liberty, you must protect weak brothers.
But it is evil for that man who eateth with offence.
But meat, though intrinsically good, is not good for the man with a conscience that considers it sin.
You must be very careful to think about every other person’s conscience and possible sin by it.
Paul knew all the meats were pure, but he knew a weak conscience made them wrong (14:14,23).
21 It is good neither to eat flesh, nor to drink wine, nor any thing whereby thy brother stumbleth, or is offended, or is made weak.
It is good neither to eat flesh.
Charity dictates that to protect the weak from violating their conscience, the strong should abstain.
While good and pure to eat meat unclean in a Jews’ mind (14:14-20), it is good to save others.
There are three traits required for wise liberty: humility, charity, and discretion; here is charity.
Paul himself declared to Corinth that he would give up meat forever to save a brother (I Cor 8:13).
We understand this severe restriction as hyperbolic and for public eating (14:22; I Cor 8:10).
The sense of the apostle here is to accept and embrace the good aspects of sacrificing liberty.
This severe rule is not for everyone, nor for all time, nor for all situations, nor for private use.
Paul’s first warning must be kept in view and applied, lest the weak overrun a church (14:1).
If “good” of not eating is absolute or universal, then Paul should have just ordered abstinence.
Nor to drink wine.
The Jews’ fear of wine was that of drink offerings to idols or wine that could be unclean by Moses.
All Jews drank wine regularly other than exceptional vows like the Nazarite, who drank wine again when the vow was over (Num 6:1-7,20). Note also grapes, raisins, hair, and funerals!
If you are a strong believer knowing that something is pure, Paul here gives you your liberty.
Have it to thyself before God.
Faith in things of liberty is a good (14:16) and pure matter (14:20) of strong Christians (14:1-2).
Therefore they should enjoy their freedom and liberty before God as clearly allowed by Him.
Since keeping days or eating meat is to the Lord (14:6), the strong can enjoy meat before God.
The apostolic rule was not to sacrifice all liberty for the sake of weak Christians, but rather hide it!
If liberty is used carelessly, it can destroy the weak (14:15,20-21) or cause damnation (14:23).
Here is where discretion is added to humility and charity as important traits needed for liberty.
When, where, and how you enjoy a liberty or mention a liberty requires prudent discretion.
Therefore, liberty must be kept private where you can enjoy God’s freedom without hurting others.
Keep liberty out of sight of weak brethren, for they may see your liberty and be hurt (14:13).
Keep them from seeing your liberty by doing it at home in privacy before God (I Cor 8:10).
Therefore, by logical extension, there is no reason to talk about your liberty before the weak.
There are plenty of things to talk about other than your liberty in many issues of controversy.
The severe call for abstinence intends only situations with the weak present (14:21; I Cor 8:13), for if this were not the case, Paul would have condemned all liberty to have saved all the weak.
The apostle Paul was a master at altering his behavior depending on audience and circumstances.
Read his modus operandi that he presented to Corinth while teaching liberty (I Cor 9:19-23).
His life was kind discretion and courtesy, as we say, “When in Rome, do as the Romans do.”
His goal at all times was to save, edify, and build up converts, and he would adjust accordingly.
If circumcision could help, he circumcised (Acts 16:3). If it would hurt, he did not (Gal 2:3-5).
Paul preached Christ over the law everywhere, but he took a vow to help Jews (Acts 21:18-26).
This is not hypocrisy, for true hypocrisy only pertains to moral issues of God’s commandments.
Hypocrisy is the designed impression by actions or statement by words to advertise godliness.
The Pharisees were hypocrites – wearing scripture but refusing to keep what scripture taught.
The Pharisees were hypocrites – whitewashed sepulchers that were full of dead men’s bones.
Altering behavior or speech due to persons present or circumstances is charity and godliness.
Graciousness always wants to be and do what the audience desires and/or expects of them.
Hate feelings that you should be what you are at all times for some false notion of consistency.
Why did Paul rebuke Peter for altering his behavior regarding Gentiles at Antioch (Gal 2:11-14)?
The church at Antioch was at peace with Jews and Gentiles eating together until Peter’s event.
Peter, an apostle and influential person, caused church division at Antioch due simply to fear.
His hypocrisy without conscience (for he ate with Gentiles) was contrary to Christian liberty.
Peter by fear rather than charity or conscience caused others to violate charity and conscience.
The Council at Jerusalem had ignored Jewish meats and drinks as being binding on Gentiles.
Peter violated the Council of Jerusalem out of fear only and caused a church division by it.
Happy is he that condemneth not himself.
Self-condemnation is painful: it torments the man with an ignorant conscience under its bondage.
So severe is this condemnation of guilt, that it is included in the damnation of the next verse.
Every man’s conscience should be so sensitive, but most have seared it by violating it often.
There is great joy and pleasure in having a conscience free from any guilt or shame in a matter.
Paul laid the foundation for this joy: let every man be fully persuaded in his own mind (14:5).
Every conscience can be educated, taught, and converted, which mature Christians do easily.
To arrive at maximum peace and pleasure in life as designed by God, you must feed yourself the word of God constantly so as to have your conscience reflect the truth and wisdom of God.
There are many good things that God allows Christians that foolish parents or false teachers ruin.
The Jews missed out on good food and drink by their superstition about Moses’ dietary laws.
The Jews had schedules messed up by their superstition about Moses’ ceremonial calendar.
If the Bible is true, wine is a good thing, but teetotalers miss it through ignorant stubbornness.
If the Bible is true, marriage is honorable in all, but prudes see only missionary position in bed.
In that thing which he alloweth.
These are things indifferent to God – not legislated either way – that a clear conscience can allow.
An informed conscience is a great blessing and comes by submission to all teachings of scripture.
If you can allow God’s good things without guilt or shame, it is a happy blessing to allow them.
Personal allowance to participate in a matter of liberty must be done with full persuasion (14:5,23).